Pre-Marital Pregnancy: How to Prevent, Approach, and What to Do Next

Pregnancy before marriage can be extremely stressful, especially in a culture that commonly stigmatises and criticises situations like this. But keep in mind that this is only the beginning of making wise, helpful judgments; it’s not the end. So, let’s discuss in this article how to avoid unplanned pregnancies, what to do if you get pregnant, and how to get the help you need.

The Issue:

Unplanned pregnancies can happen to anyone, no matter your relationship status. In India, though, the stigma around pre-marital pregnancy can feel overwhelming—like everyone’s ready to judge you. But an unplanned pregnancy doesn’t have to mean panic. You can make a well-informed decision if you take quick action and receive the correct treatment. Keep in mind that help is always available and that you are not alone! 

How to Prevent Pre-Marital Pregnancy

1. Use Contraceptives:
The most reliable way to prevent pregnancy is through contraception. Whether it’s oral contraceptives, IUDs, or condoms, using reliable contraception is key to preventing pregnancy.

2. Emergency Contraceptive Pills (ECPs):
ECPs can be taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex to avoid getting pregnant. They are a safe alternative in an emergency, but you should not use them as your primary method of birth control. 

What to Do if You’re Already Pregnant

1. Consult a doctor:
See a doctor when you find out you’re pregnant. They’ll explain you options if you want to end the pregnancy, keep it, or look into adoption. 

2. Seek Mental health support:
An unexpected pregnancy can be tough on your emotions. A counselor can help you sort through your feelings and make a good choice.

Myths About Pre-Marital Pregnancy:

● Myth #1: “If a woman gets pregnant before she is married, it’s her fault.”
Fact: It can’t be just her fault; preventing the conception is equally their job. It’s ultimately the fault of both partners.

● Myth #2: “There’s nothing you can do if you’re pregnant.”
Fact: Not true! There are endless options given. Motherhood, adoption, abortion-you just have to choose well.

● Myth #3: “Abortion is unsafe and should be avoided.”
Fact: Safe abortions can be performed in medical facilities and are permitted in India. To be sure the operation is safe, speak with a qualified gynaecologist.